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low tide

10/25/2019

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It's low tide again. 
I am standing on the beach, sinking a bit in the mud, looking longingly at the water, pulled away and out of reach. Gone are the sun's diamonds scattered across the surface, the antics of the Scoters, the curious gaze of the seals. I'm left with sand, rock, broken shells. Everything is laid bare, nowhere to hide, and I comb the shore, a bit desperately, hoping to find some little treasure as a consolation.
That's how it feels, in this place of mourning. Our tiny island community has recently said good-bye to one of our dearest matriarchs, and I feel like I am standing out on the sand flats in a cold wind, longing for the return of the water, the fullness of the high tides of summer, brimming with life. 
But low tide has its own beauty, doesn't it? Its own tranquility and spaciousness. It's own treasures, half buried in the sand.
In my sadness, connections with those I love feel stronger and deeper; their value suddenly as clear as a cut gem. The world's gifts are everywhere I look, shining like gold. My own good fortune feels like the fortune that it is. 
I think about my dear friend, Ginnie, and I see how much I learned from the way she lived her life. I see how much I have learned from the way she died. 
It's low tide again, and I walk quietly along the sand flats, watching for treasure. The tide will return, the fullness and business of life will cover our broken hearts. But for these memories - these treasures - I will find a place of honour, like sea glass on a sunny windowsill. 
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George Macleod
10/27/2019 04:51:59 pm

Sad to hear about the loss of your friend , Monica. your blog post was a tribute to her and to life that is most precious. Take care my friend. Love ya lots. George and Lois

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Lawson Hutchinson
10/27/2019 05:35:16 pm

Your sentiments reached deep in my heart. Thankyou for sharing such powerful emotions and love. Its knowing you leave a legacy behind and knowing the love you shared freely carries on. You conveyed that and her love carries on through you. I am sorry that you must travel your journey now without her to touch and talk to.

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Ruth Bennett
6/25/2020 10:30:07 am

Your words have touched my heart, Monica. So powerful. The image of low tide for a time of grieving and mourning is incredible and beautiful. You truly have a gift, my friend. Thank you for sharing.

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